Hajr

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Innalillahi wa innailahi rajiun 
My spouse, masya Allah, today he got home and gave me a cold shoulder as the day before

I very annoyed, and sad in the same time. But I have to be patience, and to calm myself. I tend to run away and try to make a distance with him. But cause when we are near physically but far away in souls

I read about it, hajr, tend to 3 days but another opinion said 29 days

Ya Rabb, I only depend on You, because being with him is torturing and hurtfully for my soul

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